Social media has become a part of our daily lives—it’s where we connect with friends & family, follow news, and share our experiences. But recently, I’ve taken a step back to reflect on the downsides of these platforms. This isn’t just about annoying ads or wasted time; it’s about something bigger: privacy, trust, and how these platforms shape our lives.
In this post, I’ll break down what’s wrong with traditional social media, explain why I’m leaving platforms like Facebook, Instagram, and X (formerly Twitter), and share some exciting new alternatives that I believe are healthier and better for everyone. This is especially for those of you who might be curious or skeptical—my goal is to help you understand why this matters.
What’s Wrong with Social Media Today?
The Control Problem
Platforms like Facebook and Instagram are owned by huge corporations like Meta. These companies make money by collecting massive amounts of data about us—our likes, locations, conversations, and even how long we look at a post. They use this data to sell ads or manipulate what we see, keeping us scrolling longer.
Recent Scandals
Some recent events highlight these issues:
- Meta’s Content Moderation Controversy: A CNN report revealed how Meta’s opaque censorship practices prioritize profit over fairness or transparency.
- The Decline of X: Elon Musk’s leadership has driven many users away from X (formerly Twitter) due to chaotic policies and unchecked misinformation (The Week).
- TikTok Bans and Emerging Context: Amid growing privacy concerns, governments worldwide are scrutinizing TikTok. A detailed report by The Verge explores the implications of a potential U.S. ban and how it has amplified debates around data security and foreign influence on social media platforms.
These issues aren’t just news headlines; they affect us personally by eroding trust and exploiting our time and data.
Decentralized Social Media: What Does It Mean?
Decentralized social media platforms work differently. Instead of being controlled by one big company, these platforms let users or communities run the show. Here are the basics:
- You Own Your Data: Your information isn’t sold to advertisers.
- No Algorithms Controlling What You See: You get more control over your feed.
- Interoperability: Users on different platforms can still connect and communicate.
Key Technologies
- AT Protocol: A new technology powering apps like BlueSky. It focuses on making social media portable, meaning you can move your profile and data between platforms if you want.
- ActivityPub and the Fediverse: A system that connects platforms like Mastodon and Pixelfed, so you can interact across different apps.
What Are the Alternatives?
BlueSky
BlueSky, started by Jack Dorsey (Twitter’s co-founder), is a promising alternative to X. It uses AT Protocol to give users more control. For example:
- You can move your data if you leave.
- Algorithms are optional—you choose how posts are organized.
- It doesn’t bombard you with ads.
Mastodon
Mastodon feels like Twitter but with a twist:
- Instead of one big company running everything, it’s divided into smaller communities called “instances.”
- Each instance sets its own rules, so you can find a space that fits your values.
- It’s part of the Fediverse, meaning you can connect with people on other apps like Pixelfed or PeerTube.
Other Options
- Flashes: A recently announced photo-sharing app like Instagram that connects with Bluesky’s AT Protocol.
- Pixelfed: Also a photo-sharing app that connects via the Fediverse.
- PeerTube: A video-sharing platform similar to YouTube, run by communities.
- Friendica: A Facebook-like alternative where you control your data.
Why This Matters
I’m not just switching platforms for fun. I believe these changes are necessary for:
- Privacy: Our personal lives shouldn’t be for sale.
- Time Well-Spent: No more infinite scrolling or meaningless distractions.
- A Better Internet: Supporting platforms that respect users can create a healthier online space for everyone.
My Journey So Far
As I mentioned in my previous blog post, I’ve left Meta platforms like Facebook & Instagram and I will scale down the use of Whatsapp in the coming months. I’ve also started using tools like Signal for messaging and exploring decentralized platforms like BlueSky and Mastodon. This isn’t about rejecting technology—it’s about finding better ways to use it.
Join Me?
If this resonates with you, I’d love for you to join me in exploring these alternatives. It’s not just about deleting old accounts; it’s about building a digital life that aligns with our values. Let’s take this journey together toward a better, more open internet—for us and future generations.